Finalizing & Submitting Essays

The college application process is a marathon, not a sprint. If your student is facing early deadlines, they may be hitting the “wall.” November 1 is a common Early Action deadline and for some students this feels all-consuming. Here are practical tips for you, the parent and cheerleader, as your student navigates this challenge.

RESPECT THEIR CHOICES

Your student is likely spending a good amount of time drafting and editing (and perhaps grumbling) right about now. Some students happily share their Personal Statement and essay drafts with parents. Others don't. Respect their choice. If they share it with you, are they inviting you to simply read it?  Or are they asking you for feedback or for editing? 

LET THEM TELL THEIR STORY

If you’re editing your student’s statement, keep in mind it’s not an academic essay. It should show the college what your student will contribute to their community. Avoid repeating resume points or writing about others. The focus should be on being genuine—if you looked at 100 statements with names removed, you should easily recognize your student's voice. Encourage them to be true to themselves and share their story.

BE STRATEGIC WITH EDITING

If they don't share it with you, encourage them to have two editors - one who knows the student well and can review for authenticity and true voice, and another who has editing skills. 

It is absolutely fine to provide editing assistance - colleges expect that students have gone through an editing process. 

TIP OF THE WEEK

There is no magic formula for a Personal Statement or other essay. Students shouldn’t worry about what they think a college wants to hear – they should instead focus on what they want to tell the college. If your student starts second-guessing themselves or their work, remind them that authenticity is everything and that they are ready to submit.